Expulsion.
Although it might not seem so, expulsion is one of the most
satisfying (and problematic) parts of giving and receiving
enemas. Many times, after just a single enema (particularly if
your girlfriend could not take much fluid), the majority of the
water remains in the colon--until you go out to dinner, or
company comes over, or you're making love. On the other hand,
there's nothing quite like the empty feeling that comes from a
good enema, completely expelled. Proper expulsion is also
necessary for any follow-up anal play (unless you like to be
surprised by spraying brown water), because once the anus is
opened, peristalsis *propels* the fecal matter and water out of
the rectum without any possibility of control on your
girlfriend's part. So . . . either follow my instructions, or
wear a yellow rain slicker.
1. Your girlfriend will often be able to tell if she's empty.
She will *feel* empty. If she has never had enemas before, it
may be a little hard for her to distinguish from the "full
feeling" that comes from not having the enema reach quite high
enough to clean her out, and the full feeling that comes from
water sloshing around in the colon. This is especially true if
her colon is "unhealthy;" a person who is an experienced
recipient can feel the water flowing in, and can often tell how
high it's gone.
2. Allow plenty of time. Time is the single most important
factor in a good enema session. There has to be enough time for
the water to flow in, and there has to be enough time given for
expulsion. If your girlfriend is inexperienced (see my preceding
notes on increasing capacity), she may *fear* the feeling of
fullness and cramping that experienced women will tell you is
just "the enema doing it's work;" the fullness and cramping go
away as the enema goes in higher and higher, and the colon stops
trying to resist the inflow of water. When she expels her enema,
make sure she's given enough time to "empty out."
3. Sometimes, it seems, the water simply will not come out. You
wait 10 minutes or so, and everything is still in there. Here's
how to solve that problem. Give another enema. Fill the enema
bag with cool (NOT cold) water. Put your girlfriend in the knee-
chest position. Lubricate her again (it wipes off) and insert
the nozzle. If you have a colon tube, begin inserting it (about
4-5"), and turn on the water. Let it flow in slowly. She will
feel some cramping (cold water makes the colon react; that's what
we want); if it hurts her a lot, pinch the tube for a few moments
until the cramps stop. If you're using the colon tube, continue
to insert it. At some point, the "new water" in her will contact
the "old water;" when this happens, she will probably BEG you to
let her get up and go. Shut off the water, remove the tube, and
let her go. If she feels warm water after the cool,(it will feel
warm to her because her body has warmed it), the cool enema
reached high enough to do its work. I've found that you must
normally give about half of a two-quart bag for this procedure to
work properly. Less, and the "old water" just stays in her. I
remember a girl I knew a few years back (she was about 22 or 23,
I think), to whom I gave an enema. She was an excellent enema
subject, relaxed enough to take a FULL bag of warm water on the
first try; but when she got up to expel the enema, she only
unloaded about a pint of water. She had to go out after we were
done, so I used the procedure described above. I filled the bag
with cool water, filled her until she couldn't take any more, and
then let her get up and expel. She was not a large girl (5' 5"
and about 120#), but by the time I had given her both enemas, she
had about 3 quarts of fluid inside her. When she got up and sat
on the toilet, she "went" for what seemed like 5 minutes
straight. Imagine if I had left her with 1 1/2 quarts of water
in her, and she was at work . . .
